It's convenient, but I think you may want to get your own material and personalize it, especially for your daughter. This isn't a review of the book, I was just horrified by the Amazon reviews, so it's a rant. Innocence is not as good as protection and 'just say no' has never been a successful strategy for anything where young people have to deny themselves. Her mother arranged a visit with an aunty to a family planning clinic where the ins and outs of getting the pill and condoms by herself when she was ready were explained. Despite the lack of potential love objects, at 14 she found one and phoned her mother about her crush. Her daughter, the same age as my son, went to a girls' boarding school in the UK. It is just building up guilt, sadness, disappointment and perhaps even feeling that their family and perhaps their congregation now regards them as a slut who should never marry in white! Is this what these people want their daughters to feel (I don't think men are going to take it quite so hard, but what do I know?)? In this day and age most girls will have sex, will 'fall' and all the guilt in the world that Daddy and Mummy have laid on them isn't going to stop them.Ī good friend of mine is a devout Church-going, choir-singing Christian. Why are some people so frightened of sex? Is it because it is animalistic and enjoyable on a completely different level than the achieving and cerebral ways that make up most of our daily levels? Is the sweaty, slippery grunting, fleshy bucking and drawn-out cries in the night (view spoiler) just so distressing to some parents that instead of being pragmatic and trying to ensure their offspring don't get HIV or make an unwanted baby they try to pretend to themselves that a talk will mean they don't have to deal with the realities of 21st century life and their kids will remain virgins until marriage? It's just so unlikely to happen these days.Īnd with this attitude of Virginity is purity and the loss of it means a used, soiled creature who will feel they have let their family and future husband down. Not only are girls expected to be Untouched Virgins, but boys are not supposed to even kiss their girlfriends or fiancees until after the marriage ceremony. Why are some peopl I was looking at the reviews on Amazon of Interviewing Your Daughter's Date and being absolutely horrified at the idea of it and then I saw this book and thought well, Daddy could save all the expense of this book, cd and weekend away by just frightening off the boys.īut it turns out that the Raineys are quite even-handed. But it turns out that the Raineys are quite even-handed. I was looking at the reviews on Amazon of Interviewing Your Daughter's Date and being absolutely horrified at the idea of it and then I saw this book and thought well, Daddy could save all the expense of this book, cd and weekend away by just frightening off the boys.

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